Finding better explanations

Another advantage for individual students taking math tutoring sessions

Recently, one of my students told me:

“I like your lecture style better than my professor’s. You have a much better way of explaining the subject. He just starts doing problems, and that’s it. Last time he was having a hard time explaining how he was using the absolute value to solve a problem. We were all confused about it, nobody was understanding what he was doing.”

Sometimes when you are studying math, and you see a topic for the first time, you struggle to understand it, and you work out examples until you find a way to get it. Then if you are a teacher, and you only have that one way of understanding the subject, you go out teaching it that way, and sometimes you confuse all of your students.

Some teachers care a lot about their students understanding their lectures but some other teachers do not care that much. Sometimes they think: “Well, if they don’t get it, though luck.” However, teachers who care about their students understanding the subject, they spend a lot of time thinking up alternative explanations, or better examples, or better ways to illustrate what’s happening.

I remember a few times (years back when I was a teacher) I felt kind of depressed, disappointed, or frustrated at the end of a lecture because I couldn’t find a way for my students to understand what I was trying to explain. Then, afterwards, I would spend hours, days, even weeks sometimes looking for better ways to explain a particular topic, and the next time I taught that course I was able to explain those topics much better.

I noticed when I started private tutoring, that really sped up the process for me, of finding better explanations, because sitting with students one-on-one, and taking the time to go in depth and in detail with them over their doubts and questions, many times I was able to discover exactly how my students in class were looking at specific problems.

That allowed me to discover faster the reasons why they were not understanding a subject, or why some of my explanations were not working. By tutoring individual students, I was able to find a lot faster a lot more alternative ways of explaining subjects when my students in a large class felt the need for those better explanations.

Tutoring individual students has helped me to focus on finding the best way for each student to understand a given subject, rather than focusing only on covering the whole subject fast in front of a big class.

Why are there so many numbers?

Where are they?

In my math tutor practice I constantly answer questions. I usually get a lot of questions from my students. All kinds of math related questions. Some of them are very common, meaning, I get them all the time. For example, Calculus and Pre-Calculus students very often ask: “What is the domain?” “How do I find the domain of a function?” The vast majority of standardized test takers ask questions to the effect of “Why do I have to re-learn all this math stuff?” “When am I ever going to use it?” Sometimes I get questions that make me laugh, like: “How can you stand so much math? My head hurts!” and “Do you also have a real job? Or, is this all you do?”

Recently a student asked me a couple questions I found just fascinating. We were going over some algebra rules. I started giving her some numerical examples to illustrate one of the rules. All of a sudden my student asked: “Why are there so many numbers? Where are they?” These are great questions! They get to the root of the concept of number. Just think about these questions for a moment. “Where are they?” Where are the numbers? It is almost like asking: “Where do numbers come from?” or even “How can I believe numbers really exist? Can I see them?” It is clear numbers are not physical objects but we use them to count physical objects all the time. You believe in the existence of something concrete, like cars, because you can easily see them (often in big numbers), but what about numbers themselves? Do we ever get to see a number? What we usually call numbers, like street addresses, or numbers in license plates, or ID cards, or page numbers in a book, all those are not actually numbers but numerals, the symbols we use to represent numbers. Numbers are in our mind. They are concepts, ideas, thoughts, more than things. My answer to these questions was along the following lines:

Numbers are everywhere. We do not see the numbers but we put numbers on the things we see. Numbers show up as soon as you are able to tell differences and similarities. Think about counting the chairs in this coffee shop, for example. When you count the chairs you do not count the tables, or the bookcases, only the chairs. So you count them because they are equal, they are all chairs. However, you do not keep pointing your finger at the same chair while going 1, 2, 3,.. You count that chair and immediately you go on to the next chair for the next number. So you count them with different numbers because they are all different chairs. What makes counting possible is our ability to identify a set of objects that are all equal, in a sense, yet different, in another sense. So we can “see” numbers when we look at the stars, at the grains of sand in a beach, or the cars in a highway, and so on. As long as our mind sees the world in terms of “equal” and “different,” numbers will be there, everywhere.

Helping Students Find Their Own Motivation To Learn

What is in it for the student, from the student's own perspective?

It is important for students to understand teachers are helping them to figure out what they want to do in life, and are helping them achieve those goals. It is not enough for teachers to give students examples of what students do not want to do in life. Teachers want to inspire students to learn; to give them an appreciation for knowledge; to show them how to put value into knowledge, and how to extract value from it. For working adults is easier to see how, in this technological world of ours, meaningful numerical patterns come from everyday life. Numerical patterns coming at us directly from real life make us think about reality in terms of numbers. The more comfortable we are with numbers, and with handling them, the better we can express the ideas suggested to us by those numerical patterns. Sooner or later, in one form or another, we realize the math we currently know is somehow inadequate to analyze the data we want to understand. Even for students who have always been good at math, there may come a point where their homework problems baffle them. This may be because such students tend to enroll in AP classes at an early age. By the time they are high school seniors, they are already covering material some science majors only get to learn about in their college sophomore year. Therefore, it is important for students to create good study habits since early in life. Study is not only preparation for work but study in and of itself can be an awful lot of work. Given that study takes time, energy, and other resources, it is important for students to be able to associate it with experiences of achievement, and empowerment. Success means different things for different people; it even means different things for the same person at different points in their life. Often students question themselves: "Is this effort worthwhile?" Some sort of confirmation is needed about it. The discipline of doing homework with a good degree of concentration, regardless of whether or not we like a particular subject that much, pays off when, thanks to that consistent effort, we are able to see the things that interest us in a new light. For many, it may mean just getting past a particular requirement, thereby clearing their horizon from a bulky obstacle. Clearing out such requirements can give students an improved sense of self-esteem, and a renewed confidence in themselves. Another important factor may be taking our time to learn things thoroughly, to make the subject ours, to make sure we really understand it, because then we know what to do at any given point, instead of feeling like randomly throwing darts in the dark, and hoping to achieve some result by chance. There are many factors involved in learning. Each student builds their own learning strategy, according to what they determine is best for them. Teachers can only hope to influence in some measure such decision making process on the student's part. Students constantly make these decisions on their own, multiple times a day, choosing the way they study, selecting what gives them the best possible outcomes in their own world, according to everything they consider important - not necessarily what other people consider important for them. For some students it is more important to find ways of having fun while learning. Others predominantly focus on their long term goals (passing exams with a good enough score) without almost ever giving themselves the chance to consider their learning experience from any perspective other than their test results. In summary, it is important for students to find educators who can provide them not only with facts but also with motivation enough for grasping those facts, and applying them.

Solving systems of equations by substitution

A topic that is hard to explain because it is so simple

The substitution method oftentimes works as a powerful technique for solving systems of equations. This method is widely taught in middle and high schools, as part of the Algebra curriculum, along with the other standard methods for solving systems of linear equations in two variables: the elimination method, the graphing method, and the method of determinants (also known as Kramer's rule). Solving systems of equations by substitution is a very interesting process, especially when we consider that the fundamental basis of its concrete execution is not really any algebraic operation at all but a typographical one. Substitution means textual substitution. It is a typographical "find and replace" operation, whereby we combine two strings of characters into a new one, by means of "copy," "cut," and "paste" manipulations. It is a common experience for math teachers noticing many of their students get confused when learning the substitution method. I believe a big part of such confusion in the student's mind comes from the unexpected, unexplained, fundamental difference in nature between algebraic, arithmetic, numerical operations, on one hand, and such a typographical, textual, character-and-string oriented operation like substitution, on the other hand. Most teachers explain the substitution method by doing some examples on the board, and hoping that students will somehow "get it." Indeed, some students do get it. After watching the teacher doing a few examples, something clicks and, that is it, they now know it. They have gotten it. Moreover, usually they not only get it but they love it when they realize how it works. Unfortunately though, these students I refer to in the last few sentences, typically make up only between ten and twenty percent of the class. They are the intellectual high achievers of the class, many of whom will go on to careers in science, engineering, medicine, or money management. The other eighty to ninety percent of the class typically did not get it. They are confused, they do not know what is going on, they have no clue what the teacher did or is talking about. For them this is no happy experience. Actually, it can be really aggravating if the teacher is particularly enthusiastic about substitution but lacks the ability to infect the whole class with his or her enthusiasm. There are some particular examples of systems of equations that, when solved by substitution, seem to yield a spectacularly elegant and short solution. When students have not yet understood the substitution method, watching one of these spectacular solutions makes them feel like the teacher is practicing some mysterious magic trick in front of them. This only adds to their discomfort, and their distaste for math in general, since it is only natural to fear and/or reject what we do not understand. As a math tutor, I have the luxury of working with one student at a time, so I can focus my attention on delivering the particular information my student needs, in the way he or she wants to approach each problem. In the case of substitution, I make sure they understand how to do it, by doing the first example myself so slowly, so carefully, so explicitly, so spelled out, so mechanically, that I make my students feel for sure they can do it faster than me. When I explain solving by substitution I do not try to look smart. Instead, I become a machine, and I consciously take all the magic away from the process, so my student can clearly see how simple it is. The delivery here needs to be accurately tailored to each individual student. It is much harder to do this in front of a whole class, because teachers have to maintain their authority; and making the explanation so explicit that the last student in the class understands it, would probably lower the teachers' own status in the eyes of several other students. In part, substitution is difficult to teach and understand because it is so simple. Compounding the problem, we have to remember all the accumulated deficiencies students are still struggling with, and dragging behind since their first years in elementary school. When solving a system of equations by substitution, the actual substitution is only one step in the process. Even when it is done correctly, students still need to work their way through all the algebraic and arithmetic operations needed to solve the given problem. They very well may do the substitution correctly, only to mess up the problem two steps down the road because they do not know how to add/subtract negative numbers, or they do not know how to divide fractions, or they are still adding with their fingers.

When it comes to math homework, slower is often better

Take your time to use the correct set of problem-solving questions

Students often approach math homework problems with the same level of interest and excitement many adults show when preparing their tax returns. They want to get them done, and over with, as soon as possible so they can do something else. Many times, this is the only interest students have in their math problems, just getting them done, and moving on to having some fun with any activity other than math. Ironically, though, this goal turns out to be counterproductive, since you can do something well and fast only when you already know how to do it. More often than not, however, homework is part of the learning process. Typically, when students do homework, they are still learning, still practicing. They have not yet mastered all aspects of the topic at hand. Very often homework problems present students with finer points they have not yet considered. We could say when students do homework they only partly know what they are doing, kind of. So their goal of finishing as soon as possible and go play, only causes them to get the problems wrong, because they use the wrong question: "What am I supposed to do here?" instead of the questions that can successfully lead them to correct solutions: "What do we have here?" "What does this mean?" "What is the question?" and "What can I do?"

My views about ADHD

The ADHD label only makes sense within the framework of a massive, standardized educational system.

Sometimes, parents tell me that their child has ADHD, and they ask me if I can help them raise their child’s math scores. I tell them it would take me more than a few sessions to figure out whether, or to what extent I can help them, because this ADHD situation works out differently with each child.

In my opinion, ADHD is not a disability, nor a disorder, or a sickness, or anything like that, unless the lab work in a given case proved that it comes from a specific chemical imbalance in the brain. Otherwise, this is how I see it: children are autonomous individuals, with their own interests, and their own preferences. Very often the school system tries to "tame," or "domesticate" students into a uniform, one-size-fits-all set of academic variables, like pace of study, homework volume, expected format for answers, and so on.

There is a whole new body of research supporting the view that academic ability is very narrow a parameter for measuring intelligence. There are several other types of intelligence, each one very important on its own right, besides just having English and Math skills. Kids may be interested in other things, actually they usually are.

I am a firm believer each one of them should be allowed to pursue their math studies at their own pace, and -as much as possible- in the information processing way that works best for them; instead of expecting them to do all the time exactly the same as the whole class is doing. Mass education may save budget dollars but society pays for it in lost creativity, and lost opportunities for individual happiness, and fulfillment.

Schools typically have no resources to properly (meaning, individually) address these so called “ADHD” situations. And parents often do not have the time, or patience, to find out in detail, how exactly their children's learning process is evolving, what their true talents really are, how far their talents and interests go along with their school work, and how to help them make difficult decisions when it comes to a conflict between the child's true talents, and what schools expect of them. Often parents tell their children: "Just do the work," or something similar, ignoring the child’s emotional process. This is not because they are not interested in their children's development but mainly because most parents want to prepare their children for the dreadful world of jobs, deadlines, and bosses most parents live in as adults.

Personally, except in the case of unruly teenagers who are involved with drugs, or gangs, I usually side with the student against his or her school's expectations, and I wish more parents would do the same, taking the time to bust the "ADHD" label into pieces, and figure out what exactly is going on behind appearances in the particular case of their child. It would be great if more parents took the time, and interest, to find out what their children really want to do in life, and help them be themselves, instead of helping them, or sometimes even forcing them, to trim their natural talents and interests, just to become some facade of personality they may eventually get used to but are never going to be happy with.

In short, ADHD is a code term for "distraction." If a young student gets distracted during math class, it is obvious to me they are not finding math interesting enough. This does not mean it is the teacher’s fault, either. There may be other activities the so-called “distracted,” “unfocused” student strongly prefers to math. My question here is: Just how strongly? Can they overcome their lack of interest in math, and produce the grades their parents want? For me, at the beginning of my tutoring work with them, this is an open problem, and I cannot form any specific opinion until I have worked with them for some time. I tell parents that, if they want me to work with their ADHD child, they have to know that my focus will be finding out the following two things:

1) How much does the student dislike math? Is it just a mild form of lack of interest? Or is it an active, gut-level hatred of math? I have seen these extremes, so I know they are real, but they can be subtly hidden. It takes time to find out. Some children do not even know the answer themselves, since it generally is subconscious.

2) Is it possible to present math to this individual student in a way that will sufficiently raise his or her interest in math? To what extent is it possible to suggest math exercises that will make math easier for them?

It is entirely possible that a better way exists for these students in life, outside of school grades and diplomas. Maybe they can be great artists, or politicians, or sales people, or any number of professions that require special talents, special types of intelligence but not necessarily a college degree. I am aware many parents do not want to hear any suggestion like those above, as most would just have their children go through the whole school cycle getting A's and B's, and then take up a profession like lawyer, or doctor, or business manager, for the prospect of finding a good job. Unfortunately, life is never that simple.

So I never promise parents (especially those with “ADHD” children) that I am going to make their child's math grades go up because I do not know if I can. All I can promise is my best effort in finding out to what extent I can help them improve their grades, and to keep in constant, open, honest communication with the parents all along, always respecting the child’s individual set of preferences, abilities, values, and interests because I do not "fix kids," as some parents in the past have expected me to magically do.

Who is driving?

Transferring control of the tutoring session to the student

Along the lines of my previous post, about how I help students in our math tutoring sessions, here is another ingredient of my tutoring method: I transfer as much control as possible to the student, over the tutoring session. The keywords here are “as much as possible,” meaning, making sure the students still learn all they need to learn. I do this by asking questions like: “What do we have today?” “Do you have any specific questions?” “What topics would you like us to review?” “What topics is the next midterm going to cover?” “Would you like to see a shortcut for doing that faster?” “Does this explanation make sense?” “What problem do you want to do next?” and so on and so forth. This is a major difference between tutoring one-on-one, a single student at a time, versus teaching a large class. A teacher in the classroom has to cover a large amount of material under a tight schedule; while the tutor can focus exclusively on the specific issues the student is having difficulties with. In a large class every student has different questions, and different difficulties, so the teacher cannot allow the lesson to wander all over the place by following the interests, questions, and difficulties of every single student in the class. That is practically impossible in traditional education. However, in a one-on-one tutoring session the tutor can answer most of the student’s questions without getting sidetracked. Actually, answering all specific questions each particular student may have, is not only possible but indeed necessary for the tutoring session to be successful. That is the very essence of private tutoring, as opposed to teaching a class of many students. Very early on in my tutoring business I discovered the educational benefits of developing the tutoring session along the needs of the individual personality of each student. Students learn better when they are learning at their own pace; when they are encouraged to ask all questions they have about a particular topic; when the instructor checks with them if the explanations make sense to them; and when the instructor lets them choose the order in which to work out the problems. Whenever I notice a student is showing signs of being bored, uninterested, impatient, or irritated, I try to find a way to give the student more control over the tutoring session. The ideal is to have the tutoring session resemble a casual conversation as much as possible. This cannot be done in the same way with every student. Each student is different. However, there are two very broad categories in relation to this topic of controlling the flow of the tutoring session. On one hand we have the working adults who are preparing to take a standardized test, and who pay for the tutoring sessions out of their own pocket. On the other hand we have the children, and teenagers, whose parents made the decision for them to take tutoring sessions. In the latter case the parents are paying for the tutoring sessions, not the students themselves. There are exceptions to every rule but, in general, I find it easier transferring control of the tutoring session to the working adults who are paying for themselves, than to the children or teenagers whose parents are paying for them. Working adults who pay out of their own pocket are already motivated enough to learn. They made the decision to hire a tutor; and they took the trouble of finding one. They usually have a better idea of why they are taking the tutoring, and what they want from it. On the other hand, the children who come to the tutoring because their parents made that decision for them, they are in a different situation. Often they are still struggling to get over the fact that they have to learn math even when they do not like it. Letting children start talking about whatever they have in mind leads much more quickly outside of math than it does with working adults. It may not show when viewing the process from the outside but actually, transferring more control of the tutoring session to the student, takes a lot more attention, and effort from the tutor than it would take otherwise but it is much more effective as far as the student achieving educational results.

To like or dislike math is an individual choice

Helping students regardless of whether they like math

One basic way I help my students is by respecting their right to dislike math. I do not try to make them like math. I refrain from insinuating, or even thinking to myself, that they should like math, because I believe they are free to make that choice by themselves. I am no longer one of those teachers who are always telling students how wonderful, important, or beautiful math is, and that they should like it. I personally love math but I very well know it is one of the least popular subjects among students. As a math tutor, I see my students as human beings first, then as clients, then as students. I know they hire me to help them pass their exams with a good score, not to make them like math, and I totally respect that. Often my students start their first session telling me they are not good at math, or they have always had problems with math, or they do not understand math, or they do not like math, or they hate math. I always listen to them, I acknowledge what they say, and I tell them that it is O.K., meaning, I have no problem with them hating math; I do not feel offended that they do not like math; I do not think they should like math; and I am not going to judge them, or criticize them, or give them a hard time just because they do not like math. Most times I do not even have to say it. Just a nod of the head, and a brief comment like “Yeah, that’s alright” make them feel comfortable with me from the very beginning because they perceive my attitude is sincere. Somehow they realize that, plain and simple, I could not care less whether they like math or not. It is their choice. I am still going to help them to the best of my ability. I do not believe there is anything wrong with them just because they do not like math, or are having problems with math. Once this basic understanding is established, that I am not going to try to change them, they trust me, and they are much more open to what I have to say to help them. In this way I can help them much better.