Why are there so many numbers?

Where are they?

In my math tutor practice I constantly answer questions. I usually get a lot of questions from my students. All kinds of math related questions. Some of them are very common, meaning, I get them all the time. For example, Calculus and Pre-Calculus students very often ask: “What is the domain?” “How do I find the domain of a function?” The vast majority of standardized test takers ask questions to the effect of “Why do I have to re-learn all this math stuff?” “When am I ever going to use it?” Sometimes I get questions that make me laugh, like: “How can you stand so much math? My head hurts!” and “Do you also have a real job? Or, is this all you do?”

Recently a student asked me a couple questions I found just fascinating. We were going over some algebra rules. I started giving her some numerical examples to illustrate one of the rules. All of a sudden my student asked: “Why are there so many numbers? Where are they?” These are great questions! They get to the root of the concept of number. Just think about these questions for a moment. “Where are they?” Where are the numbers? It is almost like asking: “Where do numbers come from?” or even “How can I believe numbers really exist? Can I see them?” It is clear numbers are not physical objects but we use them to count physical objects all the time. You believe in the existence of something concrete, like cars, because you can easily see them (often in big numbers), but what about numbers themselves? Do we ever get to see a number? What we usually call numbers, like street addresses, or numbers in license plates, or ID cards, or page numbers in a book, all those are not actually numbers but numerals, the symbols we use to represent numbers. Numbers are in our mind. They are concepts, ideas, thoughts, more than things. My answer to these questions was along the following lines:

Numbers are everywhere. We do not see the numbers but we put numbers on the things we see. Numbers show up as soon as you are able to tell differences and similarities. Think about counting the chairs in this coffee shop, for example. When you count the chairs you do not count the tables, or the bookcases, only the chairs. So you count them because they are equal, they are all chairs. However, you do not keep pointing your finger at the same chair while going 1, 2, 3,.. You count that chair and immediately you go on to the next chair for the next number. So you count them with different numbers because they are all different chairs. What makes counting possible is our ability to identify a set of objects that are all equal, in a sense, yet different, in another sense. So we can “see” numbers when we look at the stars, at the grains of sand in a beach, or the cars in a highway, and so on. As long as our mind sees the world in terms of “equal” and “different,” numbers will be there, everywhere.

When it comes to math homework, slower is often better

Take your time to use the correct set of problem-solving questions

Students often approach math homework problems with the same level of interest and excitement many adults show when preparing their tax returns. They want to get them done, and over with, as soon as possible so they can do something else. Many times, this is the only interest students have in their math problems, just getting them done, and moving on to having some fun with any activity other than math. Ironically, though, this goal turns out to be counterproductive, since you can do something well and fast only when you already know how to do it. More often than not, however, homework is part of the learning process. Typically, when students do homework, they are still learning, still practicing. They have not yet mastered all aspects of the topic at hand. Very often homework problems present students with finer points they have not yet considered. We could say when students do homework they only partly know what they are doing, kind of. So their goal of finishing as soon as possible and go play, only causes them to get the problems wrong, because they use the wrong question: "What am I supposed to do here?" instead of the questions that can successfully lead them to correct solutions: "What do we have here?" "What does this mean?" "What is the question?" and "What can I do?"

Who is driving?

Transferring control of the tutoring session to the student

Along the lines of my previous post, about how I help students in our math tutoring sessions, here is another ingredient of my tutoring method: I transfer as much control as possible to the student, over the tutoring session. The keywords here are “as much as possible,” meaning, making sure the students still learn all they need to learn. I do this by asking questions like: “What do we have today?” “Do you have any specific questions?” “What topics would you like us to review?” “What topics is the next midterm going to cover?” “Would you like to see a shortcut for doing that faster?” “Does this explanation make sense?” “What problem do you want to do next?” and so on and so forth. This is a major difference between tutoring one-on-one, a single student at a time, versus teaching a large class. A teacher in the classroom has to cover a large amount of material under a tight schedule; while the tutor can focus exclusively on the specific issues the student is having difficulties with. In a large class every student has different questions, and different difficulties, so the teacher cannot allow the lesson to wander all over the place by following the interests, questions, and difficulties of every single student in the class. That is practically impossible in traditional education. However, in a one-on-one tutoring session the tutor can answer most of the student’s questions without getting sidetracked. Actually, answering all specific questions each particular student may have, is not only possible but indeed necessary for the tutoring session to be successful. That is the very essence of private tutoring, as opposed to teaching a class of many students. Very early on in my tutoring business I discovered the educational benefits of developing the tutoring session along the needs of the individual personality of each student. Students learn better when they are learning at their own pace; when they are encouraged to ask all questions they have about a particular topic; when the instructor checks with them if the explanations make sense to them; and when the instructor lets them choose the order in which to work out the problems. Whenever I notice a student is showing signs of being bored, uninterested, impatient, or irritated, I try to find a way to give the student more control over the tutoring session. The ideal is to have the tutoring session resemble a casual conversation as much as possible. This cannot be done in the same way with every student. Each student is different. However, there are two very broad categories in relation to this topic of controlling the flow of the tutoring session. On one hand we have the working adults who are preparing to take a standardized test, and who pay for the tutoring sessions out of their own pocket. On the other hand we have the children, and teenagers, whose parents made the decision for them to take tutoring sessions. In the latter case the parents are paying for the tutoring sessions, not the students themselves. There are exceptions to every rule but, in general, I find it easier transferring control of the tutoring session to the working adults who are paying for themselves, than to the children or teenagers whose parents are paying for them. Working adults who pay out of their own pocket are already motivated enough to learn. They made the decision to hire a tutor; and they took the trouble of finding one. They usually have a better idea of why they are taking the tutoring, and what they want from it. On the other hand, the children who come to the tutoring because their parents made that decision for them, they are in a different situation. Often they are still struggling to get over the fact that they have to learn math even when they do not like it. Letting children start talking about whatever they have in mind leads much more quickly outside of math than it does with working adults. It may not show when viewing the process from the outside but actually, transferring more control of the tutoring session to the student, takes a lot more attention, and effort from the tutor than it would take otherwise but it is much more effective as far as the student achieving educational results.